http://alisonslife-in-the-slow-lane.blogspot.com/ Life in the Slow Lane: SIMPLY A MOMENT

Thursday 20 December 2012

SIMPLY A MOMENT

DECEMBER 19

As I sit nursing a cup of almost-cold tea, looking at the lights and years worth of decorations on our Christmas tree all I can hear is Boo's heavy breathing as she dozes next to me on the sofa.



The TV has now been turned off and Kirsty has headed to bed, and I'm thinking of what a lovely evening we've had watching the two Home Alone DVDs, during which I have laughed AND cried! They remind me so much of Stuart you see...he was at just the right age to enjoy the slapstick humour, and I can still hear him laughing uproariously then asking if one day we could go and have Room Service at the Plaza Hotel in New York!

Thinking of Stuart in turn leads me to thinking about the families affected by the events in Connecticut last week, and to how they must be trying to cope with their losses. Christmas- and indeed their lives-will never be the same again. I send up a silent prayer that they will find the strength to get through the upcoming holiday season and beyond.

I have a last look at the tree before I switch off the lights and go to bed....eighteen years ago I didn't think I would get through (or want to get through) Christmas ever again, but there are so many memories on our trees and and in our decor, that I always feel Stuart with me more than ever at this time of year.

Thanks must go to ALEXA for starting this meme which has given me the encouragement to take the time to write down these important, but random thoughts!

Thanks for dropping by!
Take care of you
Alison xx

20 comments:

  1. Thank you for sharing your moment Alison - the tree is simply, stunningly beautiful as are the words you have used. {{Hugs}}

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  2. Those are very important thoughts. Thanks for sharing and for letting us know what is in your heart.

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  3. Wonderful post. I was talking about the Home Alone movies at work today with colleagues and want to watch them again. Merry Christmas!

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  4. Alison,
    You are so strong. Thank you for sharing that strength with us today.
    We watched Home Alone last night - I also like to watch Die Hard!
    Rinda

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  5. Beautiful post and beautiful tree x

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  6. A beautiful,heart felt post,Alison.....and a beautiful tree.

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  7. What a wonderful post Alison. Thanks for letting us in your thoughts. Your tree is beautiful.

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  8. awww Alison, a beautiful post and a reminder to think about ones that are no longer with us xxx happy christmas xxx

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  9. Hugs Alison! Bless your heart. Beautiful words and I'm so happy you recorded them. What a lovely tree with so many amazing memories! tfs

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  10. This is such a beautifully written post, Alison. I'm so honored to read your words and know how you are feeling at Christmas time. I'm sure it is bittersweet for you every year. {{{hugs!!!}}}

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  11. A beautiful post. There's nothing I can add to what has already been said, but know that I am thinking of you and yours. x

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  12. I felt both wistful and hopeful reading this lovely post, Alison - your courage and acceptance are very moving ... I am especially touched you've joined in at this tender time. Thinking of you all...

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  13. wishing you and your family a lovely Christmas Alison, your words really moved me xx

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  14. Thanks for sharing with us. Merry Christmas, and God Bless You.

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  15. Thinking of you Alison. Your simple moment is very special and you tree, very beautiful xx

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  16. I am soooo sorry Alison but so glad that you have the strength to laugh at the happy memories as well! The US situation right now is so dire with so many terrible incidents of late!!

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  17. Alison, I know the holidays must hold such mixed feelings for you. It is good to remember, even if it does mean some tears along with the laughter. ~ Blessings, Tracey

    http://gracescraps.blogspot.com/

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  18. That was beautiful Alison. Thinking of you :-)

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  19. Dear Alison - just dropping by to thank you so much my dear, for your love and understanding - which has stretched right across the globe and given me strength to carry on as well as I have been able to. I have managed to find some pleasure and delight in the season - in spite of my terrors facing it like this for the first time. This is a lovely, touching moment - and your tree is beautiful. Thinking of you, along with others on the www - who have offered me so much love and support this last 6 months - Many many good wishes for 2013. J xxx

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